Now, Civil Unions are not equality, and they are not justice. That will, alas, take a long time to accomplish. Harry Truman began the project of integrating the Military in 1948, but it wasn’t finished until 1954, the same year Brown v. the Board of Education required integration of the schools. Laws against blacks and whites marrying were not struck down until 1967. Until then, progress, when it occurred, was state by state. We’re seeing the first few states turn just now to enable gay marriage.
But Civil Unions are the foot in the door. They give more rights to gay couples than they have without them.
For people born between 1979 and 1990, according to a Pew Research poll conducted this year, support for Gay Marriage and Civil Unions is almost identical – there’s just 3 percent difference between disapproval ratings for the two. The difference rises substantially with people with earlier birthdates, however. A majority of people born before 1958, however, disapprove of gay marriage, but a majority does not disapprove of civil unions. The gap between the two concepts is 14% in people who were born before 1943. So that distinction, between marriage and civil unions, is an important stumbling block to an earlier generation on this issue. As the percentage of the voting population that was born in the 60’s and later increases, we’re going to see a quite significant shift in the numbers, and the population that draws the distinction Joe Biden drew in the debate between Marriage and Civil Unions will become a vanishingly small group.
The reason that young people are more accepting, I suggest, is because they’ve seen healthy gay relationships among their peers. The reason old people are less accepting is because their gay peers had to hide their relationships, so they never saw them work. Just as Harry Truman making black people in just one segment of society led eventually to greater acceptance and eventual legal equality, so will civil unions make people less scared of gay people.
A lot of this will happen when judges recognize that the 14th amendment, guaranteeing equal protection under the laws, doesn’t contain a special exclusion for gays and marriage. Judges tend to be older, but they also tend to be a bit better educated, and as time goes on the old ones retire and are replaced by people who have grown up in more enlightened times. It’s hard to be patient, but there is an inevitability to this. It’s no longer possible, I don’t think, to spook people into passing an amendment to the U. S. Constitution to stop it, so we don’t have to worry about that. We’ll get there.
Only a fool, however, would think that we won’t get there faster with Joe Biden and his running mate, than with Sarah Palin and hers. Even conservatives will benefit, I suspect, from moving past this issue, which they are doomed to lose anyway, and moving onto issues where they might, possibly, have a point.
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Interesting points. I'm of a mixed mind on civil unions as I am on most Democratic "half-measures" - they're obviously an improvement, but only if the leaders who pass them don't think they've finished with the issue. Too often with the Dems, that's the case, and the people have to keep pushing them to do what should be second nature for an elected official to do: the right thing.
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Scooterbird:
I used to be in favor of civil unions: on one hand, they'd provide gay couples with the same rights as straight ones. At the same time, the word "marriage" has all sorts of cultural connotations, and why antagonize people by messing with their culture?
Then The Other Paul and some others smacked me upside the head with a clue-by-four and pointed out that gays want the cultural connotations in addition to the legal rights and privileges.
History has shown that "separate but equal" is usually far more the former than the latter (I even have my doubts about men's and women's bathrooms; I've heard rumors of couches in ladies' rooms). Civil unions are an improvement, yes, but if you're going to change society, might as well go all the way.
There's another, more pragmatic argument for leapfrogging civil unions and going straight for marriage: unless I'm misremembering (which is possible: I'm half-asleep), in both Connecticut and Massachusetts, the state supreme court ruled that not allowing gays to get married is unconstitutional discrimination. "One group has this right; let's extend it to everyone" seems easier than "Let's build this new institution that looks just like that other institution over there".
Incidentally, the Hidden Message is my political blog
Ah, I'd been wondering why there was a dearth of politics at your other haunt. Thanks for the pointer.
It's just the nature of democracies to move slowly. Yes, if I was dictator, I absolutely agree -- going straight to marriage is the "right thing." As it is, we have to break people into the idea, and get people on board first. A few states will have gay marriage, a few states won't, and that gives the states that don't a chance to look at the ones that do and come to terms with it.
Scooterbird, the alternative to having people have to push elected officials to do the right thing is to have people trust elected officials to do the right thing -- at which point there's no real reason to pay attention to them. I'll settle for the having to push.
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